Wednesday, December 2, 2020

WELLNESS WEDNESDAYS: 5 Tips for Handling Stress and Anxiety in Kids

 

"It's not stress that kills us, it is our reaction to it."
                                                           --Hans Selye


In a year dominated by a global pandemic, I have seen an increase in the number and frequency of webinars targeting professionals about the importance of self-care and personal wellness. 

But what about the children? 

The stress experienced by our children, especially those children who have ADHD, anxiety, and learning disorders, is hard to measure because kids don’t talk about their feelings.  When parents are glued to the news, what about the children?  How do children react to daily news about growing COVID-19 cases and deaths?  How do kids react to the often-sudden changes of school on, school off, school virtual, and learning from a computer screen on their kitchen table instead of in a classroom with a teacher and classmates? 

What we see is kids’ grades falling.  Kids are not sleeping.  Kids are withdrawn.  Kids are not having social interactions with other kids in the classroom and the playground. 

What will the long-term consequences be on the physical and mental health of children?   What are the short-term consequences?

We must be good stewards of children’s health.  We must be vigilant in ensuring we communicate with our children.  We must be aware of cues that kids may be experiencing stress, anxiety, or depression. 

What can parents do if they think their child is experiencing stress and anxiety?  Here are 5 tips:

  1. Make healthy meals and snacks.  
  2. Don't buy junk food. Avoid food dyes, preservatives, sugars, and refined grains.   
  3. Have family dinners and ask your kids about their day.  
  4. Talk with your children every day and tell them you love them.
  5. Seek help from mental health professionals whenever you need help.

With love,

Nancy Heinrich, MPH

Founder and Wellness Architect

Growing Healthy Kids, Inc.